pretty = more choices

Years ago, a friend, also a senior person in the company where I worked for, asked me a question: "You're so pretty and smart, you can have anyone you want, why did you choose XXX given the complicated background?"


For the purpose of this blog, I'm not going to discuss the truth of his statement, but rather the logic of it.


Pretty girls have more choices, yes, but more often than not, they have to choose from a lousy selection (read... a bunch of jerks).

It's the same with cats. The long hair, pretty ones are most often brought home by children and frivolous adults who, in few days, would realize that the cute appeal does not remedy the fact that they actually have no intention of having a cat at home at all. On the other hand, plain cats in the streets will only be picked up by genuine cat people who just want to give the cat a permanent home.

Don't blame pretty girls for being unapproachable and haughty. Look beyond and you'll see how they've been hurt after putting their heart and soul into a relationship and finding that the other party has just lost interest.